the toolkit
Gentle, practical guides for hard days.
A growing collection of small, doable guides. How to start when you're overwhelmed, how to settle a racing mind, how to make one corner of your home feel calm. Free to read, written from lived experience, and always at your pace.
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When it all feels too much
How to start decluttering when you're overwhelmed
Gentle, practical steps for decluttering when you feel overwhelmed, anxious, or low on energy, from someone who has been there herself.
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Calming your nervous system
Grounding techniques for when everything feels too much
Simple grounding techniques you can use anywhere to settle a racing mind, including the 5-4-3-2-1 method, slow breathing, and a hand-on-something-cold reset.
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ADHD and getting started
Body doubling: why starting is easier with someone there
What body doubling is, why it helps ADHD brains start and finish tasks, and simple ways to try it at home, even on your own.
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Your home as a calm space
Setting up a calm corner at home
How to make one small corner of your home a place your nervous system can rest, with simple, low-cost steps and no big tidy-up needed first.
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Want someone beside you?
Guides help, but sometimes you need a calm person in the room. The first session is always free, and we go at your pace.